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Question: Many, many Japanese adults ride bicycles -- to work, to do their shopping, to meet friends. Why do you suppose bicycles are used so frequently? I will share my own thoughts in a later blog entry!

Someone once said, "If you have been in Japan for two weeks, you can write a book. If you have been there for two months, you can write an article. If you have been there for twenty years you can write a paragraph." I understand completely the sense of this quote. Japan is a fascinating and very complex culture, and one which I have entirely enjoyed experiencing. I am listing here, with humility, some customs I have observed, and I welcome your comments!

Bowing when greeting, whether it is an attendant welcoming a passenger onto an elevator or family friends meeting for dinner.

Always, always ending a helpful exchange with “Domo arigato” (“Thank you”).

Keeping to the left on a stairway or sidewalk, echoing the traffic pattern of cars on the streets. Our guide explained today that this custom began when samurai warriors, whose swords rested on their left sides in order to be drawn by their right hands, stayed to the left so they could be ready to confront those to their right.

Always waiting for the green light to cross the street. No one jaywalks!

When a purchase is made, credit card, cash and change are placed on a small tray between the purchaser and clerk while the transaction is completed.

Storing dripping umbrellas in a waterproof sheath when entering a building.

When asked directions, the always-courteous citizen is willing to help and walks with you toward your destination until it is clear you know where you are going.

Removing street shoes to wear slippers in homes, museums or other special places.

Carrying a handkerchief, not for blowing your nose but for using as a handtowel after washing one’s hands.

Holding up two fingers in a “victory” (or “peace”) sign when saying “Hi!” for the camera.

Leaving bicycles unlocked, with the knowledge they will be there when you return.

What else might you know about Japanese customs??